10 years still not married!

My bf & I have been together since my senior year in high school, almost 10 years ago. We have been living together for almost just as long.

We have gone through the some really tough times together. Battled an addiction & even losing our home.

My bf has a heart of Gold & has completely turned his life around. He feels as though God is calling him to ministry.

But I just don’t understand why he hasn’t talked much about marriage!? We spoken about it but nothing has happened.

At this point in my life I cringe when someone ask me how long we’ve been together & I respond with “10 years”.

Help!?