She doesn’t sit well with me. She’s messaging him all the time. I’ve read the messages and there is no interest on his part. But she’s always messaging, sending pictures, memes, and making herself relevant in his life. I’m ok with him having female friends but her energy isn’t ok with me. He gave me a key to his house and she ended up giving him a key to her house. She said when she works late she’d like him to walk her dog. They live in the same apartments. My bf and I decided to get off of social media and focus on each other, work, and our pregnancy.. I asked him to not text her as often because it made me uncomfortable. She texted him saying we’re both immature and it’s time to grow up and I’m making him lose out on free advertising. I cant be jealous at this age.. He never deleted social media with an X before so why now? She basically sent a paragraph shit talking our choice to focus on our growth as a family..

We’re in our 30s.. having a baby.. and started a new business. I ran it by him that I felt annoyed with her shit talking, telling him that we’re immature and that I’m a liability or costing him money.. (we have advertisements/ promoters) And to give their communication a break for a while. His response irritated me. He basically said she’s one of his best friends.. and would stop responding to her messages out of respect for me..

I don’t want it to be for me. I’m not forcing him to abandon his friendships. I wish he would see that she’s over stepping her boundaries and want to avoid her for a while for us.. for our relationship. For our security. Not to feel controlled or like I’m bossing him around.

Shit even if he told her he’s not interested in her daily messages or advice.. i guess that’s my answer right there. He is interested 🤦🏼‍♀️ he does want her daily messages and advice.. . wow completely just answered my own concerns..

Also they’re great friends but I didn’t know about her until a year into our relationship.. she popped up out of nowhere it seems.

@Amanda- he has other friends that stay in their lane and don’t budge in. I’d never try to stop him from being friends with her. It just that she’s not respecting mine and his life choices. Her advice was not asked for. I really hope you’re not a friend that would be sending selfies to your married male best friend daily. Or asking him why he’s deleting social media so he can focus on his family life.. that makes so sense to me.