Good idea or not? Iam lost.

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How do i tell my husband i want to see other people, just to have fun. I don't want to hurt him but cheating on him is not an option. I dont want to lose him but i would rather leave than hurt him. I just want to see other people, go on dates and all that other stuff i probably should be doing at my age (24). Iam very bored.

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Maybe you don’t want to be married anymore? You said you don’t want to hurt him, but I’d be hurt if my SO told me that.

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I think of you should prepare for a divorce if you ask that. You should rather try fix the boredom in your relationship instead of assuming sanctioned cheating will fix it.

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Why did you bother getting married? What was the point?  Work on your marriage if you love him or leave him so he can move on and find someone who actually wants to be with him. 🤦‍♀️

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Have you talked to him about being bored? 
Maybe try dating your husband again, wake things up in the relationship and make it fun again. 
If not, then get a divorce. A marriage is a commitment to ONE person.

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It sounds like you got married too young and you weren’t ready. You need to do some serious introspection about what you need and want and if that is more important than your marriage. It is likely that it will be over if you have this conversation.

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If he isn't feeling the same way, this could be devastating. Why not talk to him about your boredom first? I know for some people open relationships work. I don't know how lol. Just be open with him and prepared that he may leave you. I would.

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Go out on dates with your HUSBAND.. spice things up with your HUSBAND.. idk it just aggravates me how women on this app have found a man that clearly loves them and dedicated their life to them but want more. And don’t appreciate it. I just don’t understand that. If you tell him this he will probably want a divorce. I would.

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It’s hard to be young & see all your peers dating and exploring. I got married at 22 (25 now), but I don’t see you asking your husband if you can date other people & you not really hurting his security in your relationship. Try dating your husband again & doing new things together & spicing up the relationship you already have

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File for a divorce it sounds like you don’t want to be married anymore. 
You can’t just up and decide for the both of you that you want an open relationship and expect him not to be hurt and to be okay with you wanting that.

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Do him a favor and break it off. Then do everyone a favor and don't get into a relationship, instead go and spread yourself around like you want to.

Good idea or not? Iam lost.

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