Does this make me petty?

My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married 2 1/2. We have a 6 month olf baby as well.

Every year for his birthday I will plan a surprise, whether that be a party or surprise gift. I like to make him feel loved and special.

When it's my birthday (I know I probably shouldn't) but I kind of expect, not the same, but something similar. In all honesty I just want to feel love and wanted. On my birthday, we always just go to watch a movie and eat at the SAME restaurant as we do when we just go out usually. So it's not anything special.

My husband always asks me what I want to do but I've always told him I just want him to surprise me. I don't want to organise my own birthday??

I also always have to remind him of my birthday days or weeks before. On my first mother's day, he didn't get me any from our baby (as in a card, don't expect a gift) but I got him a card before baby was even born saying I know how good of a dad he's going to be etc, he loved it so much he actually started crying.

This year, I've decided not to remind him of my birthday. I'm purposely just not going to mention it just to see if I'm important enough for him to actually remember and make the day special for me.

Does that make me petty?