No blastocysts...

I just went through my first IVF cycle with ICSI... we got 10 mature eggs, 9 of them fertilized. None of them made it past day 3. We are so heartbroken and so discouraged that we didn’t even have a chance to try transfer. Not to mention the costs associated with having to restart the whole process... How soon after did you guys try again after your first failure? And what have you done to try and cope?