I loved my in laws before our son was born. Then I feel like a lot of the boundaries and respect went out the window. They often tell us how to raise our son and if we disagree they say “You have to”. They also ask to be together at least twice a week (it was daily for the first bit of his life until we put our foot down) and get upset if we have plans. The other day we had plans with my side of the family and they asked us to do something and we told them our plans. They acted sad but said okay. Then during the event texted telling us we should come over. It was already getting frustrating but then my husband got a text from his father basically saying they need to not be limited to our child anymore and a bunch of other things. There’s been a lot of more issues, but let’s get to the point. My husband has finally seen what I’ve been seeing and we’re meeting with them to fix it, but I feel bad for my husband. He loves his parents and I hate seeing him hurt being in the middle. How can I help?