Incompatible Love

I dated a guy for 3.5 years. We broke up 4 years ago amicably and I’ve dated other people, but I’m always thinking of him. We’ve stayed in very vague contact over the years. More recently we’ve been talking more and planning to see each other. I’m excited because I love him and always will, but I also don’t think we’re very compatible. Mostly our communication methods differ drastically (I know this happens with most boy-girl relationships). I get things done right away, he procrastinates. I’m organized, he’s not. All of this makes it difficult to make plans with him because he never knows his schedule, or things come up that he forgot about and then he cancels and he doesn’t communicate these things with me well and then I get frustrated.

So I guess my question is...I’m so deeply in love with this man and haven’t found anyone who comes even close to making me feel the way he does. But our incompatibility makes me nervous. What do I do? Does love trump all? Do I just wait and hope I find someone I’m compatible and in love with?