Am I overreacting

My Father in law took it upon himself to tell his entire side of the family that I was pregnant. I was only 4 weeks along at the time and just found out. I had a miscarriage a month before getting pregnant so I wanted to keep it a secret until at least 12 weeks. He didn’t listen and told his 2 brothers and his sister which turned into them telling everyone else. I told my husband that i was pissed off about it because it wasn’t his place, and my husband said he told it was fine. He didn’t ask me at all, didn’t even tell me he was going to do it and that I am making it into a big deal. I didn’t want anyone to know because I didn’t want to tell his entire family that we had a miscarriage if it did happen, but it’s like they don’t care and said it’s normal, and that his parents should be able to because they’re excited to be grandparents. But, I honestly don’t care how excited they are, that doesn’t give them the right to tell everyone. And I don’t think my husband has the right to okay something without my knowledge or opinion when it very much includes me. They are also being super bossy about what I can and can’t do, eat, drink, you name it. My FIL seriously told me to not drink tap water, just bottled water. I’ll seriously be walking up some stairs and they’ll be like “ope, don’t trip!” Cuz I’m clumsy, my FIL told me not to run after my 3 year old, I’ll just let him run into the damn road I guess. They are all being way too overbearing and I’m about to explode. I know what I can and can’t do while pregnant and I feel like they should all trust me enough to not have to constantly try to tell me what to do, as if I don’t know how to take care of myself and my baby. This is not my first child, but it is my husbands and their first grand baby. I’m getting to the point that I don’t even want to see his parents or talk to them. My husband is honestly the worst at dealing with hormones, mood swings, and me being emotional. He’ll laugh at me crying over stupid shit and get pissed off if I’m aggravated and take it to a whole new level. I’m so tired of all of them. My husband is too dependent on his parents, they’re too much in our business, we see them way too much, usually like 3 times a week or more. My husband tells them all the problems were having so of course they form and unwanted and unneeded opinion. I just can’t take them anymore. And when I say them, I’m really talking about my father in law. My mil is a sweetheart and I love her to death. But my FIL is about make me pull my damn hair out and the longer I’m with my husband, the more he turns into him and it’s driving me nuts.