Feeling regret in my relationship, am i wrong.

I hate everything about being pregnant bc my bf makes me feel like my opinion for my baby dosent matter. Everything I want for my child to him Im being dramatic or ridiculous. Today I asked him when the baby comes if he can give me a little break from his other children visiting for just two weeks so that I can assimilate into being a new mom and also bc she will be a newborn. He said that sounds crazy and he still needs to see them, that it’s just a weekend and he’s not gunna tell their moms that they can’t come over bc I had a baby. And so I told him ok that’s fine me and the baby will just stay in the room, he says well he’s going to come get the baby so that they can see her when they do come. I am furious bc they are 3 and 4. I dont understand why My decisión for my baby can’t be respected. Everyday I want a single mom bc everything I ask for he keeps saying I’m dramatic and He isn’t going to do it. Am I wrong?