Smh so I just found out that I have herpes 1 n 2 now i dont know what to do I have tell the man that I been with for 4 years that I have this disease n that it’s not going anywhere. I’m so scared right now. I know I had to have it before him because we always used condoms until las month. I haven’t had any breakouts thank god. But I have been having the flu like symptoms for the past week. How long does that last before I have a breakout or will I ever get one? Please help I just really need some input on this....