I’m tired of always being depended on
I’m due in 4 days and I’m just so tired emotionally....
I was having issues with my boyfriend coming home whenever he wants, and not being respectful so I told him I wanted him to move out about 2 weeks ago. I told him I’ll give him time to find a place. We been good but I feel like he’s only been on his best behavior because I asked him to leave. We still sleep
In the same bed, and things are good but he’s made comments about going out of town, and visiting friends and all this crap right after the baby...so I’d rather him leave then things go back to how they normally are.Plus, after 8 years I don’t wanna have to keep monitoring him, so I’m sticking to my ground..
Now I’m just annoyed because I’m not working and I just paid rent on the 1st. He didn’t even offer to give me a dollar. Yet, he went to spent $345 to get his new truck registered. But when he needed something from Amazon I ordered it, he didn’t give me the money for it. Yesterday, his insurance renewal papers came in and he asked me to fill them out.
I’m just so tired of him always wanting me to do something for him but he can’t do shit for me. I haven’t told him I been annoyed with him not giving me rent since I was the one who told him I wanted him to leave but it’s like if you’re gonna be here for awhile then at least offer me something.
Before he was paying more than half, and now I paid the full amount t myself. Before he went to work I told him I’m stressing out finically just to see what he would say..he had an attitude. And said I overthink everything. I told him it’s easy for him to say when he isn’t having to pay rent himself, and other bills. He got mad and went to work.
I know I should be upfront and tell him to pitch in, but I’m so tired of having to tell him what I want and need
Update: He ended up texting me while at work and I told him how I felt.
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