So although we’re separated and partially not all my business what rules we had together that he no longer does in the apartment is fine.

However am I crazy enough to believe you not telling me you’re not picking up our kid and not coming to see her in the evening like you have been because that’s what you wanted....told me goodnight as if you were....but the I see you on location you’re at a bar....

Certainly not the best way to be working on us when you cannot tell me what you’re doing without me asking. No I didn’t ask. And no I’m not controlling because the day before two of his friends I know asked him to watch the football game at the around the corner sports pub from the apartment and I did say yes.

Opinions. Not judgements. I need help walking away at this point. It’s not healthy for any of us to be hanging on like this. How did you do it.