First time mom & first time SAHM

Im just asking a question i do not want to be lectured!! So Husband works mon-fri hes gone 13 hrs Day due to commute and work. So agreed id stay uo w baby at night shes only 2 weeks i atay up feeding changing and pumping etc. So husband leaves me saturdays to go see stepson play his game which is also a commute and hes gone 6 hrs. When he gets home he has his food ready which i get its my job to cook clean and raise our baby he watches her for 20min when he gets home enough time for me to shower and i come out baby is crying and hes sound asleep. SS is over the weekends so my husband stays up til 11pm to watch tv with him yet he knocks out at 7/8pm with me pisses me off that hes no fcking help on the weekends i would at least expect that. Do your husbands help or are you doing the work and thats how it should be? Ive worked sonce i was 16 and 2 jobs im just not aure how the SAHM life is supposed to be.