Is this inappropriate? Do i have a right to be upset?

Question

Boyfriend of 5 years has a girl best friend who has a son.. his best friends son is my boyfriends god son.. they have been friends since middle school and their both 26 (I’m 23.) they hang out sometimes which I don’t mind but he goes to her house to spend time with her and her son..
My question for the poll is - am I wrong for feeling a certain kind of way about him going there + is it inappropriate?

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Ok... best friends since MIDDLE SCHOOL.... and a relationship of 5 years. There’s quite the difference there! He is her child’s godfather, that’s great that he spends time there.  No it’s absolutely not inappropriate for him to spend time with them, that’s his best friend 🤦🏼‍♀️

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No. It is not inappropriate. If you feel it is, then date someone else.

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You asked 2 questions and the poll only says yes or no. You are allowed to have feelings and you're allowed to feel uncomfortable. However those things you listed aren't necessarily inappropriate. If theres nothing else in your story, there's no real reason to assume anything is really going on. What is or isnt appropriate depends person to person and relationship to relationship. That might not be okay in some relationships, but is okay in others. If you're feeling a type of way about it, I think you should talk about it with your bf, as long as you aren't accusing him of anything. There may be something you guys can do to help ease your discomfort.

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If you have a problem with it why don't you ask him and see if you can start going over and hanging out with them and building bonds with his bestfriend and her son? As a god parent you have a responsibility to build a bond with your god child.

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Is it weird or inappropriate for him to spend time with his friend of 13+ years, a friend whose son is his godson?! How is this even a question?! No, it's not inappropriate or weird. It's normal. 
It's weird you're making a thing of it.

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Since you guys are in a committed long term relationship....have you met this woman?  And are you also invited for visits or does he try to keep you separate?

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Do you not trust him? Spending time with a friend and godchild isn't inappropriate

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Them having a relationship is not inappropriate.

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You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Even if she goes “pound my tamaboochie into the negaverse w your giant Astro boner” he still doesn’t have to do it. He is perfectly capable of shutting shit down. And if he doesn’t, hes trash, or maybe he doesn’t want you - a lot of variables but at the end of the day HE chooses to cheat.

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Well go with him somtimes
Bring it up to him..
Shit idk her.. You or him
So who knows
Only you know your man

Is this inappropriate? Do i have a right to be upset?

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