I'm 14 and my boyfriend is the 19 going onto 20 soon is the gap to big?

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Way too big. No 20 year old man should want anything romantically or sexually to do with a 14 year old child. I know you feel grown or mature for your age, but he is old enough to know better and surely he's aware that you are easily influenced by an older man. Please, find someone closer to your age, stay away from pedophiles.

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Now...yes. When you're older like 18, no. Definitely once you're both in your 20's, no. Isn't this age gap illegal right now?

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Yes, I’m sorry, but any 19/20 year old that is dating and having sex with a 14 year old has something wrong with them. Either they are massively developmentally  immature, so they can’t relate women their own age, or they are pedophiles.

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There’s a huge difference between the age difference of 14-20 and the difference of say 20-26. Most nearly 20 year olds trying to fuck a 14 year old are creeps doing it because you’re still a child, but you think you’re old enough to date guys like that. They take advantage because they know it’s easier to manipulate younger girls. You’re not even halfway through puberty but he’s almost old enough to drink and graduate college. He may be a nice guy, I don’t know. But if I were you I would be careful and question things to make sure I’m not dating a manipulative pedophile. I was literally in this position at your age, and he raped me. Please be careful, and don’t let him smooth talk you into anything you’re not ready for.

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There’s something older girls notice is wrong with him if he can’t date someone his age. Now I can’t be talking much, I’m 16 and my bf just turned 19, but it’s legal in my state.

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Your boyfriend is a pedofile

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You’re a child. And have no business with someone that age. It doesn’t make you more mature, it is grooming.

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Pretty sure that’s illegal 🙄I’m 13 and 16 years old seems to much let alone 20 I don’t think people should date until at least 16 but that’s just my opinion

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Didn’t mean to hit the no button.. 6 years isn’t a big age gap if it’s LEGAL. This is statutory rape, you’re not even old enough to consent. Drop it until you’re 18!!!

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is the 19 going onto 20 soon is the gap to big?

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