If you choose them over me, we are breaking up!

To make a long story short. I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is too. I am trying to move out my parents house. I want to stay with my bf we have been together for year and a couple of months. I love him and I want to marry him. My parents don’t like him. They said it’s more out there for me etc. So when I told them I want to live with him. They got really upset because it’s wrong as a Christian. They said I’ll ruin my life and I’m ruining my education. They said he doesn’t care about me and I’ll regret my decision. My dad said I’m not as smart as I thought I was and he said I just want a man. (Basically calling my desperate). So I told my boyfriend and everything. So, then I told him basically I’ll just get my own place just to make them happy instead of us moving in together. He wasn’t happy when I told him that. So he told me “ I don’t think it’s fair how you want to make them happy. Instead of our relationship. It seems like you care about your parents happiness than our relationship. If you do move in by yourself than us moving in together just to make them happy. We might as well break up.”

Of course I don’t want to break up with him. Because I love him and I want us to stay together. But now it’s like I’m in a limbo between them and him. I do want to stay with him to be honest. My mom is controlling at times too before this situation.

*I have made 2 previous post on this . But I’m making new post to add on to it.”