So me and my unborns father split up a week ago, he's moved out back to his parents so it's just me (and bump) and my 3 year old son, anyway we discussed what will happen once the baby gets here and I've told him for the first like 3 months of the babys life he won't be able to have him over night without me there, but he can stay the first couple of weeks at mine on the sofa and come and see him often while I get the baby settled and in a routine, he's saying I'm being selfish and unfair and that he should get our newborn baby 2-3 days a week as soon as he's born, so basically take him away from me whilst hes so tiny, I really want to breastfeed as well and he's saying they'll make me express which I don't want to do unless I really have to, am I being selfish here? , when he's a little bit older it will be so much easier to arrange what days/nights he has him but surely he shouldn't be away from me whilst he's so small? Advice would be great :)