My husband of 12 years has never shown me affection or even really said I love you

He first said I love you 11 years ago from his prison cell phone

Our first night as newly weds we didn’t have sex until 5 weeks after we were married

He proposed inside a card and hid in the bathroom for my answer

Anyways months ago I almost stepped out of line with myself and almost opened my eyes to someone else

I couldn’t do it I told my husband

He has ED so before sex was once maybe twice a month which was odd a 10 pack of conforms would disappear in 1-3 months

After I told him I ALMOST cheated I was feeling unhappy unattractive and importantly unloved

He starting saying I love you 3-7 times a day

Sendings good morning I love you messages

Sex is 4 times a week now

He now which never did before goes down on me twice a week

Buys me gifts

He’s written me 3 love letters

Tells me every Sunday what he appreciates and appreciated I did for us or him that week

But so many years went by without all this idk if he’s being true or not? Thoughts?