Long post ahead. I started dating a guy in July and everything went so perfectly. We were completely crazy for each other and we were inseparable. He even had me meet his kids within a couple of weeks of dating. Well, I happened to get pregnant one of the very first times we ever had sex. When I told him his first response was "you have to get an abortion". He later apologized for saying that, he actually felt really bad that he said that. We had hung out a couple of times after I told him and things seemed to be fine. Well fast forward to labor day weekend I started hemorrhaging and had to go to the hospital. That was the last "real" conversation him and I had. He claims that the same day that happened he got into an argument with his ex-wife but wouldn't ever tell me what it was about. He admits that he just went into shut down mode and cut me out. He continued to semi ignore me, only replying to a few texts here and there about the baby. Well, fast forward to late September I ended up losing the baby. I text him when I found out and told him that he was off the hook, a free man, that the baby had died. He came over a few days later and it was really awkward. We talked for about 10 minutes and he had to run. We hugged, but I was pretty weak because I was still actively miscarrying. He made the comment that life just got hard for him, which I will give him that, he has a million things on his plate right now, but he also said "you definitely didn't make my life hard when we were together and I really liked being with you, who knows, maybe in a few weeks we will rekindle". Well since then I have deleted him from Facebook because I felt like I needed to grieve my baby and social media has been an outlet and I don't think he would appreciate seeing that. I'm just having such a hard time accepting that were over. We were so great together. He made life so good before I got pregnant. But I want to know from a man's point of view if this is even affecting him, does he even feel bad for how he treated me and does he wonder how I'm coping? Can someone be that heartless?