Really struggling

So my husband has a very short fuse, very quick tempered. It’s hard but, manageable usually. However, he’s very stressed right now since he’s in school full time and working full time. I’m also stressed because that leaves me essentially a single parent working full time and 33 weeks pregnant. I literally don’t “expect” anything since I know his plate is full. So I do all the cooking, cleaning, appointments, child care arrangements (we work weird hours so no centers available, makes it challenging), yard/house maintenance, all while working full time.

My husband also does “dabs.” He’s been keeping them under the bed in our room. Today, our toddler was looking under the bed and tried grabbing them. Obviously I stopped her and moved them. I have asked him numerous times to move them in the past and he’s always said “she doesn’t go under there.” Well, now she does so I texted him “hey, she tried grabbing the dabs tonight. Moved them but they can’t be kept there anymore.” We are now in a huge fight where he’s telling me I don’t watch her close enough and I don’t do enough. How can one possibly be defending his weed over the safety of his child?! Im a very hands on mom. I do so much with her but I still need to do things like laundry, go to the bathroom, etc.

The reason I’m here is because, his words, “I bet a bunch of strangers would think keeping them under the bed is perfectly fine. It’s not like they are just sitting f*cking our! In fact, you should really ask that!”

So, give me your thoughts guys. I’m more than willing to answer questions.