Anyone else struggling seeing the scale rise?

I lost 20lbs before getting pregnant and I've cried often since my 20w appointment when the midwife student (not even my midwife) told me I gained too much in 4 weeks. I gained 9lbs in 4 weeks. I'm 22+2 and haven't gained anything since. Totalling 12lbs my whole pregnancy.

When I was pregnant with my daughter my doctor never said anything about my weight. It's such a struggle. Literally all I want to do is eat though. I eat healthy when I do and workout. I'm trying to stay within the 35lbs I'm supposed to gain.