Does your partner not being romantic bother you?

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Been w my s.o for 5 years and I feel like I dont get reassurance... I tell him about it but he says I'm being extra

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There’s a difference between expecting romance 
And needing reassurance in the relationship 
If he was never romantic you can’t expect him to magically become a romantic guy
But if it’s reassurance you need, maybe let him know what your insecurities are and how he can help

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He’s very romantic so can’t relate but it may just not be his love language

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What do you mean by reassurance? I’m really not understanding your question because you’re asking about romance and then saying he doesn’t reassure you. So which one is it? 🤔

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Sometimes I wish my fiancé would do sweeping gestures like ill come home to flowers or something like that but I don’t really get to bummed about it becasue he does other things to show he loves me, even if they’re small things. For example, he leaves earlier than I do and when it snows he clears my car off for me. Or when I work late I come home to dinner waiting for me. Little things help me know he cares

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Husband doesn’t say I love you often but instead shows me that he loves me every day.  He told me early on that saying I love you constantly looses its meaning. It was odd but my ex said it constantly and didn’t actually love me. Expectation of romance is low for me. But we touch and hug A lot. I have days where I feel insecure and he’s good to give me hugs.

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My husband is not romantic...AT ALL! However, this was clear when we are dating and I never had expectation of him being romantic as I don’t care if he is or not. If I was someone who liked romance I would have not continued with the relationship and found someone more compatible

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Do you mean like kissing and hugging and holding hands or just sex?

Does your partner not being romantic bother you?

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