Cooking food for your partner

Lydia

Any one have issues over food in their relationship.

My husband has really high expectations on food and if there is some a little under/over cooked it ruins his day and doesn’t want to eat it and just wastes it. The most annoying thing he does is not communicate that has ruin his day and appetite he just goes silent and crosses his arms and just grumps. I try to encourage him to eat it and proof that it’s not undercooked or take the thing he doesn’t want off his plate. But this just aggravates him even more.

I told him many times he doesn’t want eat it my food that’s fine just say thank you and apologies for waste of food. But instead he just grumps as if I’ve ruin his day trying to make me feel more guilty . This has caused a massive argument twice now. If this keeps happening I won’t cook for him anymore...!

The most annoying thing is that if he goes to someone’s else house and it’s not perfect his fine and doesn’t complain and eats all of it.

He also texts me nearly everyday asking what’s for dinner and complains how we have not got any food in the house. Like its my job to read his mind ahead of time to know what he wants stacked in the cupboards that week.... !