Hey ladies,

I am in a new relationship and I really like being with this man so far. We got tested before having sex and I made sure to get on birth control. We still decided to have sex with a condom for the first time and he was taking quite some time to finish. I was concerned I was doing something wrong. After a few times ( even without a condom and trying anal which is his favourite) he didn’t come. I brought it up to his attention and he claims to have a fear of getting me pregnant. He has cum once outside of me by jerking himself off. He reassured me that the issue is not me and that he is holding himself back. He will literally last over an hour before I give up 🤦🏽‍♀️

What should I do 😭 I have been pressuring him to cum inside me because it is safe. I taught him how birth control works but any other ideas ? He is 23 and I am 22 in case you want to know 😪

Thanks in advance