Should he block her?

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Ok so I have this issue with my boyfriend right now and I brought it to his attention to. 
To start off a few months back I had an issue with this girl and one of her ex's message me warning me about her saying how she ruins relationships and what not. Of course I thought it was someone messing with me and I told my boyfriend. 
He told me that she was a lesbian and had no interest in him what so ever. So I blocked the dude and went on with my life. Few months later to last week on his birthday he has a "guys night" or so I thought....
I was at a drum circle so I'm miles away from home but my phone still had service. I start getting these texts from my boyfriend that says "stop saying you love me" and "I don't want to be with you anymore" and just so much more.
Then I get a pic message of him and her. That's when I flipped out and was calling trying to figure out wtf was going on. So the same girl from months ago showed up at his birthday, took his phone and was pretending to be him and the one sending me texts. 
So yea we went through all this argument blah blah blah and so now here we are and we are working together on being more honest, trust and communication. I told him that if you are really wanting to work on this then I don't want you and her talking. Like I don't want her existence at all in my relationship. 
He says that they are just friends but her whole intention was completely disrespectful and almost ruin my 6 year relationship. At the beginning of our relationship one of my ex boyfriends did something similar which resulted me blocking him on everything and I haven't spoken to him since.
So am I right to ask him to block her and not talk to her anymore?

Sorry if this was so long.

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You are totally right. And text her from his phone and be like "BYE FELICIA". Sorry if that saying isn't cool anymore insert the latest saying that is cool.

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I think you're 100% right. That is so disrespectful and if you made those choices and kept your relationship strong after your ex tried it.. There should be no hesitation on your current boyfriends part to do the same!

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This happened with me and my hubby. He used to tell me that if I was going to argue with him over stupid shit to just break up with him. So when I found out he was talking to her secretly and deleting messages (we were only together like a year at this point) I said I'm not going to argue with you, I'm not gunna just get over this so we might as well split up. He went berserk and came to my house and wouldn't leave until I talked it out. He blocked her and told her they were done being friends. Hasn't talked to her since.

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If he really cares about the relationship he would block her without you telling him to. She is the one who was disrespectful not you.

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I think your right in the way u feel. But u should think about why she felt so comfortable behaving like that around your boyfriend. Why did she have his phone. Some women are like this but only some men will let them feel comfortable enough to. U need to let your boyfriend know this is a deal breaker if he doesn't end contact with her because she has already proved what she will do.

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100% right

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I agree.  This is a non issue.  Blocked and gone.  People who disrespect your significant other?  Not interested.

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Sorrry to Say that but this girl which I would call different but I won't, she is trouble and your man knows it. If he didn't get rid of her yet that means he is comfortable with her doind what she is doing. To be honest I would be long gone by this time and dump his ass and kick her fake ass personality. Somebody who does this childish things don't even deserv you getting mad at her cause she is already blessed by God with dumbness!!! Good luck to you and hope you do what you think will make you happy!!!

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You're completely justified. I would personally talk to her myself too. She sounds like a piece of work...

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Yes, out of respect for you and your relationship, he should block her and cut her out of his life. Because from now on, there will never be trust if she is involved. And if he strongly puts up a fight about it, I'd have to ask myself why his is so intent on staying friends with her. That would be a HUGE no-no for me. The girl would probably get smacked and he'd stop talking to her, or he'd stop talking to me. Simple as that.

Should he block her?

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