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Finally happened

So I’m almost 23 weeks pregnant, and this pregnancy has been nothing but hell from the start. We tried for over two years, FINALLY got pregnant by having my tubes cleared, getting put on chlomid, and having sex for 22 days straight.

I’ve had severe hypermesis gravidarium, and have also been having cervical problems since 8 weeks. We’ve been lucky to keep our baby, and found out last week he has a cleft lip. Not super worried, as there are worse birth defects but between that, moving AND our baby shower next weekend, it’s been stressful to say the least.

We only have sex when my doctor clears it. And today she cleared me, my cervical length looked great and I hadn’t had any problems in about 2 weeks. I texted my man, and he just kinda brushed over it.

Well I eventually totally forgot, as we went about our day. We get home have some pizza in bed and all of the sudden he goes to the bathroom and comes back totally naked. I’m in bed like

He gets in, gets comfy and prominently passes out. Now he works an extremely demanding job as a roofer and a house builder. He works more than 90 hours a week most weeks so I normally would brush it off. But I’m like dying.

I tried rubbing on him, I tried grabbing him. Nothing. Out like a light. So I’m over in the corner like

He eventually turns over, aaannnddd this is when I feel his halfy. I decided ya know what, I’m gonna let this man rest. Like he’s clearly exhausted. About 10 min into him cuddling me he slides his hand across my panties. I’m like

Then he starts sticking his finger in me. I’m having a hard time paying attention to my show, and so I just stare at the ceiling like if this is a joke I’m gonna kill him.

Then 30 seconds of that leads to him suckin on my tities, and then before I know it I’m finishing. Then he’s pulling my underwear off, and I’m just