When I had both of my kids I was single. Every day I had to work I had to wake them up get them dressed. Dropped them off at the day care or baby sitters. It was a typical every day thing. I did it on my own. Made sure they took a bath before bed. Blah blah blah. Now I have a boyfriend and we live together.

My best friend has been a stay at home mom. So all she had to do was get up get her daughter ready for school. Put her on the bus. Get her off the bus. Take care of the toddler. Clean the house which she barely did. Cook dinner which she expected her hard working husband to do. And expected him to take care of the kids when he got home from a long day at work.

So anyway she started working. And he started helping more in the house because well why not? Their both working so he trying to lighten the load by helping with house work. She texts me angry that he isn't helping getting their kid ready for school. She is saying because he is capable of helping he should do it. I seriously didn't know how to respond because I use to have to do everything on my own. And now that I have a boyfriend and we live together I still do. But he works overnight. So does her husbsnd. The days my boyfriend is home he helps me sometimes by making sure the kids are up and dressed. But I still have to get up and do their hair. Which I know its different because she has a husband. But come on now. It kinda irritated me that she complained about this. I'm over here like get the freak over it. She always has something to complain about.

I started to push away from her because she is so negative. Never has anything nice to say about her husband. But watching from a far she is the one with the issues. She was a stay at home mom for about 3 to 4 years. And all she did was complain. He worked a good 10 to 12 hours a day. And she expected him to take the kids off her hands so she can relax and he take care of them and cook and clean. 😑

Sorry but I needed to vent. And this is the only place I could vent.