So my boyfriend now fiancé proposed to me in a way I feel is not thoughtful. So he proposed by putting the ring in my shoe and I put my shoe on later and it was there. I asked him what it was and he said a ring I said ok he said so you gone marry me I laughed and said yea and he went back to his video game. I don’t wear the ring and I explained to him because I feel like you could have put in effort or something. All he says is well not like it was a surprise we talked about marriage before. Ladies I’m I wrong for completely hating the way he did it and that it was thought less.