Best friend jealous over baby stuff (UPDATE!)
So me and my best friend were pregnant at the same time she had her little girl already but I got a couple more weeks to go, this is her second child and she doesn’t have the best living and financial situation. Me on the other hand, me and my husband have. Really good financial situation and we have our own house and great paying jobs.
She gets her baby stuff used and and from good will or it’s donated to her, which I have no problem with even I have a few things that are used, but most of my stuff is brand new and we have more than her .
I never throw it in her face what I have, I keep to myself what’s new until she points it out. Lately she has been making remarks and taking shots at me about how she doesn’t have new stuff and we do. Last week she came over and seen I got the mommaroo chair, and she said “wow must be nice to afford finer things in life” and she was rude or quiet the whole day. I don’t know what to say half the time, we both came from the same upbringing, we pretty much came from the ghetto, I worked my ass off to get out of there and to get to where I’m at now.
My question is how to I deal with her? She’s my best friend since we were 12 and I think the way she’s being seem a bit toxic.
(UPDATE!)
I should of added this I forgot to but, I helped put on her baby shower with her mom and I bought her a 300$ lanisoh breast pump and made up a basket of baby stuff and all her favourite things.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.