I need advice...

So... My dr wants to induce me on Monday. I was telling him about the pain I feel and he chose it was best to do it as soon as I turn 39 weeks. And thats monday. Here is the problem..

My uncle died when I was 7. It was rulled as a suicide, but my grandma swears up and down that he was murdered. His name was Newt. Or Newton. Jimmy Newton. And the subject of uncle newt is very very VERY touchy with my grandma.

How was this relivent? Monday is his birthday. I didnt remember that when I was scheduled. She cried when she found out cause she was happy, but now she is shoving "Newt" down my throat cause "it was meant to be". My husband and I dont want to name him after my late uncle. We dont want any family names. Our other two were named completely after famiky members and were really set on keeping this ones name "original". But she wont take the calm, kind no as an answer. My husband and I dont even want to do Monday anymore because we dont want to deal with this his whole life, shes already threatening to call him Newt regardless of what we name him and its really pissing my husband off cause she wont back down and respect our decision.

I need advice on ways to handle this before my husband looses his cool on my grandmother.

I know not going by an old womans wishes to name my son after her deceased son may sound cruel... But the drama and emotion that goes along with my uncles memories is so intense, i dont want my son living in that shadow.