Should I be worried?

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My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. I rode the fuck out of him and had more than one orgasm.
But he could not cum! We tried for a while but I was the only one getting off. 
I'm really concerned I wasn't doing well enough for him or maybe he's just not attracted enough to me or something, idk. I'm doubting myself. 
What do y'all think ? Why wouldnt he cum ?

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Was he nervous?

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One thing to consider is that if you guys had some alcoholic drinks then that can play a part into him not reaching climax.
The other things is to just have a fun discussion with your partner and see which position allows him to reach climax best! If he does not know then it will be best to try different positions if you two are up for it!

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Okay wow I'm jealous you were able to orgasm so much. I have yet to orgasm during sex 😩

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i have a new boyfriend, this is the second person i’ve had sex with.
i thought i rode him great but he only seems to cum in missionary (so far), so i’d try a different position. also, reassure him to help with anxiety!

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My husband takes a long time to cum. He always has. He said even when he was first having sex as a teenager, he still would take forever to cum. He’s not sure why, but it’s not anything that I do or don’t do. I actually asked him about it after we had sex the first few times and I noticed he wasn’t finishing. I had the same worry as you. After having a conversation about it, I realized he need a lot of foreplay before we actually started having sex in order to finish. So, that’s what we’ve done from that point on. 
I would wait and see if it happens again the next time you have sex. If it does, talk to him and ask him if there’s anything you can do to make it easier for him to cum. It’s important to have frank and open conversations about sex so you both have fulfilling and rewarding experiences. 🙂

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Maybe hard for him to orgasm in that position. And sometimes men need a certain rhythm to finish lol. Like sometimes my boyfriend can when were going kind of slow and sometimes he has to be going hard and fast

Should I be worried?

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