More Interested In Video Games

Hey so my bf and I used to have a VERY active sex life but then my little sister moved in with me and we had to be more careful but still never stopped us cause we’d have sex in the kitchen or shower (I live in a studio apartment). He’s always played computer games but not nearly as much as he does now and our sex life is suffering from it which he blames on the fact that my sister is home but that’s literally never stopped us before.. like ever. These past two weeks though we’ve only had sex 4 times (twice in a day, one day per week) with literally no foreplay he just feels me to see if I’m wet and then puts the condom on and sticks it in and goes to town 🤦🏻‍♀️ and then afterwards we’ll dress and go to the gym and the moment we step out of the shower when we get home he’s on the game the rest of the night.

I’ve tried dressing up in the things he likes so when he comes over after work he’ll want to get some but it hasn’t been working like it usually does lately... I love him to death and don’t want to lose him but what do I do here? I don’t want to be the bad guy and tell him to cool it with the games while he’s here but damn dude... I bought a rotating vibrator from Spencer’s so i could please myself since he’s not doing it as often anymore ☹️