Self harm

Leah

My boyfriend just broke up with me, and he’s been a bit depressed and suicidal and self hating but never done anything about it, but he’s getting really bad for the past hour. He’s literally breaking up with me so I find someone “better” and is also being mean on purpose so I hate him and don’t come back to him. I want to tell our youth group leader but would that make things worse? What do I do??