So does anyone else love being tied up, spanked hard, toys, eyes covered, bringing in ice, sweet things? Me and my fiancé love it, but he’s tried twice to pour candle wax on me, and it just scares the shit out of me. The first time he was going to I was so scared I was shaking. The second time I was too scared as well. Any tips on getting over that fear? Or any other kinky things to try? It’s something he really wants but I just haven’t been able to follow through.