So let me start by saying I’m very protective of my baby, I’m a first time mom and I panic about everything. That being said for right now the only person I feel comfortable leaving my son with is my mom because I’m a spitting image of her so I know she is just as cautious of everything as I am. Well my in laws are the opposite(they raised five crazy boys so they are not careful with anything) and they’ve never respected my opinion on things to begin with. Nothing serious but my mother in law will decorate my house with things she likes and when I tell her to stop she says no matter how many times you say no I’ll do what I want. So I do not want to leave my son with them anytime soon. Well my husband is now saying because I let my mom watch our son over night I have to now let his family and I explained I wasn’t ready and why and now it’s a huge fight and he said how rude and unfair I am. I understand it’s not necessarily fair of me but for now I could not possible leave my child with them and go enjoy myself for a night(he wants them to have him over night) anyone else like this or have advice?