My husband asked me if we could take a break.
My husband and i had been doing good or so i thought. We ate dinner and laughed around then he took a shower while i played and got our daughter ready. He hd asked me in the morning to look for some hats and scarves that he swore he saw in a box in the closet. I completely forgot and before we were about to leave he asked me. I told him i forgot so he started going thru boxes, mad. He didnt find the scarves or hats. Instead he found clothes from last year, and a bag of baby clothes from our girl. He started arguing with me about how i need to get rid of everything cuz “were not mice” i told him “youre out of your mind if you think im getting rid of our daughter’s baby clothes”. Her first outfits, like when she was out of the hospital and other clothes. We went grocery shopping and when we got to walmart he just kinda released everything he was holding in. Saying i wasnt willing to change for him cuz he likes bringing countless people to stay with us and i tell him its not ok. He said he changed soooo much for me.He said i bring in all the negativity in the house and That i dont use my head for anything. At this point i exploded back cuz he gets mad Nd is soooo disrespectful. I told him to respect me and he said “if u want me to respect you you need to respect me” and then he said in his opinion our marriage had been shit from the very beginning and that he wanted a break. In tears and completely confused i told him “theres no going back if you decide we take a break.” So i think my marriage is over. Im heartbroken, and oh so confused.
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