Should I be worried ?

Question

My boyfriends best friend who is a guy started dating his ex who’s a girl and she really did my boyfriend wrong when they was together. But his best friend had asked him if he could talk to her and my boyfriend said yeah she didn’t care. but ever since he’s been really hurt and mad about it and I mean pissed. I understand the betrayal but do you think he still has feelings for her? Everytime I ask he swears he don’t but I haven’t help but fell insecure and the other girl is actually decently pretty and in shape and theres me who’s more chubbier and just don’t wear makeup and can’t help but feel down sometimes you know. Let me know what you guys think please

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So my opinion is different because of the experience I have with it. My ex and i were in this situation. One of his friends dated his ex. But he didn’t really care or seem bothered by it. If he did, he didn’t make it known at all so I’m guessing it was only a little bothersome, if at all. My second example is my current boyfriend. His ex (and baby momma) had sex with his best friend during a foursome. Again, he didn’t really seem to care or be bothered by it. He said they’ve been broken up for 2-3 years already. So basically what I’m saying is that in my experience, they never cared about their friends getting with an ex. But I guess it also depends on how much time has gone by between that relationship.

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I can’t tell you how he feels, but I can tell you that you should tell him how you feel. He may not even know that he’s coming across like he still has feelings for her. If after you express that it makes you feel a bit bad, he still continues to talk about how upset it makes him, then maybe there is an issue.

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I would be upset if someone dated my ex, not because I still have feelings for him, but because it would upset me that my friend didn't care about the shitty things my ex did, or didn't believe me. That would suck

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Don't be thinking it's u.. it's just he is hurting about his friend.. he properly told him about all the negitive things she did to him so to date her.. he's properly just abit hurt by it.. but he did give his blessing so he just needs to deal with that.. if he really wasn't happy.. he should of said something and then it's up the other person.. their friendship won't be the same now.

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If you’re down about being chubbier and not wearing makeup then change that about yourself. Don’t do it for him or her though. But If YOU want to personally do it go for it.

Should I be worried ?

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