Home for the holidays with a newborn

So my husband is in the military and we don’t live near family. We just had a little boy at the beginning of October. We’re hoping to be able to go home for Christmas and New Years. The only family that has met our baby is both of our parents and grandparents. I have a huge family and he has a decent sized family too. I’m just paranoid about everyone wanting to hold him and love on him and everything. And I’m the type of person that can’t say no to someone but I’m trying to work on it. Any advice for getting through the holidays and not having extreme anxiety with everyone wanting to hold him and pass him around??