I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now. I feel like I can see that we have some differences on how we approach things when we argue or having a discussion. I’m a person who likes to talk things out and whoever is in the wrong to realise that it was a mistake, apologise and close the argument there and then. But he just drops names and walks away by making up excuses like “I’m sleeping”.

Also whenever we have a conversation about making decision even tho it’s a small one, he pretends to listen to me and then he goes does what he wants and never sticks to our plans and I said to him what was the whole point of us talking and discussing things together if you were gonna do your own shit and he shuts me by saying “just to shut you up, I said okay”.

I love this man so much but it’s hard for me to deal with problems alone and lately I feel like he takes me for granted and I’m walking on eggshells with him.

Please help. I want him to take me serious. And I am really thinking to stop talking to him for couple of days.