Finally had sex after 4month break

Today my husband and I celebrated 10 yrs together. Our baby is 2 months old and I got cleared by the doctor two weeks ago to have sex. But didn’t feel like it....until tonight! (First baby, had 2 degree tear). It didn’t particularly hurt, just felt tight and weird and we used a loooot of lube and foreplay and went very slow. But I’m so happy we did it, it felt great to connect with my husband again and not only be a mom for a little while. I just wanted to tell you that it doesn’t need to hurt a lot for everyone! I was just so scared to do it bc of everything I’ve read!