Baby number 2?

I’m in such a dilemma and just totally at a loss as to what to do.

I’ve got a beautiful little girl that is coming up to 9 month old. I always thought I just wanted the 1 baby, I didn’t have the best pregnancy so I figured one was enough for me. However the older she is getting I’ve realised that I would love another. Not right now I’m talking a good 3 year down the line.

My problem...my husband is dead set that we are having no more kids. It doesn’t matter what I say to him he is adamant that he doesn’t want another. I’m not the type that would just go and get pregnant without him being comfortable with it for me we both need to be 100% on board with it.

I just can’t understand his reasoning behind not wanting another, it’s not like we’re resining a demon child we’ve been so lucky with her she’s a dream and up to now we’ve had not one issue with her she is such a good baby. I’d understand more if we had a hard time with her but we don’t.

What can you do in this situation? I just can’t picture my life with just one baby, I want to give her a sibling. I absolutely adore my siblings were the best of friends and I want her to experience that too, I just feel like it’s totally out of reach for me 😔