Lazy partner stresses me out

Do you ever get tired of being the one to do everything in the relationship? For example, my bf and I were planning on moving into an apartment together and I was the one who looked up apartments, called to schedule the tours, made a budget sheet for how much we needed to save, and made a list of the things we needed. This weekend we found our apartment and I was the one who applied for us both. Our move in day is in 3 days (promotion), and we need to finish buying what we need, start packing, and figure out a few things and he is being NO help.

Today is Monday and he’s off work, tomorrow he works all day and Wednesday is when we’re moving and he doesn’t work (I work M-F 8-4pm). Well I told him today we’re going to have to go buy what we need left (trash cans, bathroom essentials, pots/pans, and dishes) and then go to Walmart to buy boxes and bags and then come home and start packing. I told him while I was at work if he could look into moving trucks and reschedule my dogs appointment (cause it lands on Wednesday). He rolled his eyes and sighed and it honestly made me upset. I have been doing ALL the work and i would’ve done those things too if I wasn’t working but seriously?

It’s annoying and I get that he works and gets tired but so do I? And it’s not like I’m asking him to do things that are meant for me, it’s for both of us. The dog is mine but when we move he’ll be ours and he loves my dog so why is it an issue to reschedule? I got upset and told him that Im not asking for much and why he was acting like such a baby. And I went on to say that he’s being too much and I hate that he’s acting the way he is. 30 minutes later I send him a text sorry sorry but that I’m just stressed out with moving and everything and he doesn’t even read/reply to text and I know he saw it because I sent him a screenshot of my dogs clinic and he saw it 2 minutes before I sent the message and it’s now been 20 minutes...

I’m just dumb for feeling bad and apologizing and he can’t even give me the courtesy of texting me back. What should I do? Idk how to tell him to step up without being an ass.