Someone teach me some shit.

I try so hard to straighten my hair and do my makeup but it always comes looking like shit. I feel ugly and frustrated. Why can't I do it? My hair still comes out fuzzy and I take small pieces, use heat protectant, and even go through it several times. My foundation and powder look orange and I'm clueless when it comes to eyes. I'm tired of looking like I'm 12. I want to look my age and I want to look decent instead of a beast.