Razor bumps from shaving

Sierra

So guys I have put off shaving for a long time because I'm scared of razor bumps,razor burn,ingrown hairs and general discomfort . I had a wax in July and gosh it was so painful lol 😂 I don't want to go back .So what are the best techniques razors oils creams or whatever to do this with the least discomfort . Thank you very much I appreciate whoever responds 😊