OK, so this situation happened recently and it’s weighing on my mind. My boyfriend and I haven’t been together that long, but we are very passionate. We’ve discussed kids before, but he’s more hesitant than I am. So, this past weekend, I told him that there was a period of time where I felt different. I have been craving a lot of different foods, was slightly more moody, etc.

He actually freaked out, hoping that I wasn’t pregnant because he wasn’t ready. Now for me, it felt odd. I’m still not 100% sure if I’m not pregnant, but I’m now here thinking “damn, what if I was sure that I was”? “Would he leave?”

I vented to a friend of mine at work, and she looked genuinely concerned when I told her his response (by the way, I am pro choice, but I know I would never have the heart to abort a possible pregnancy. I sometimes cry killing spiders for fuck’s sake)

Should I be concerned? Or am I overreacting?