Vacation away from spouse?

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Do any of you ever feel like you need a day or week from your spouse/family? I love my fiancé, but he’s been under a lot of stress recently. We still have fun, but dealing with him on a day to day is pretty rough. He doesn’t usually realize how he’s taking his stress out on me and it’s emotionally exhausting.
*also, for record, I’m very much an introvert. I’m the type of person who could happily go hours and days by myself or with my person. After spending time with people I need time to be just by myself. However I work 2 jobs (so every day of the week) which are very people oriented, so I’m exhausted from that, then I come home and it’s just being slammed with more stress from him and I’ve got no where to get away from it all. I don’t think it’s wrong to get away for a day or go on a vacation with close friends and enjoy our alone time.

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Yes, I need my me time and girl time. Have you talked with him about this?

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Honestly, no, I never feel that way. I enjoy going out with my friends for a few hours, but if I'm gonna do a day trip or vacation, I'd absolutely want my husband to come.

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Definitely. Just a bit of quiet not every minute of the day someone wanting something from you. The chance to actually hear your own thoughts.

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Yes, I think it's good to get away sometimes.

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Yup. We take some weekends apart - mostly just my husband going hunting or fishing. I don’t have anywhere to go for a weekend haha sometimes he leaves our son with me, so it’s not exactly a break. But other times (like this weekend) he takes him with to my in-laws.

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Sure I feel like this at times, but I know that if I carry out the plan I’ll miss them so much after a day or so and come back. Lol

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I really would not like a vacation away and would always want my husband to come. However he traveled a lot on his own before he met me and Ioves having time to himself. Something I dont feel the same about but if he needs it I try to understand and give him that time. I struggle with it like what will you do that whole time? Like I would be bored and miss my husband if I was by myself. I've just resorted to the fact that I probably wont understand it and just have to respect it.

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Honestly no. And I’m married, been together 5 years, married 2. You haven’t taken that step yet and already want to get away. Think about why, and consider if he is marriage/forever material

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It sounds to me like he needs the vacation. He's  under a lot of stress and you don't want to be around him?. You should be supportive to what is stressing him out and help him. Not leave when the going gets tough. Stick by your man. You have a vacation together.

Vacation away from spouse?

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