Felling stupid (boy problems)

My boyfriend left me for his coworker a few days ago. He’d been friends with her since September, which is when red flags in our relationship started popping up. I ignored it because I loved him and cared about him. 3 weeks ago he told me he wanted to take a break but started seeing her every day for hours and I knew they were starting a relationship. We didn’t officially break up until a few days ago.

I’ve been really upset for the past month the past week especially. At first everyone was telling me to move on. Now that I’m trying too there telling me I’m moving on too quick. I should wait 6 months at minimum to find a new relationship?

I started to see a boy in my class in a different way today than in the past. I thought I had a “crush” on him, but with how all over the place my feeling are I don’t know. I’m not in a place for a relationship yet though.

Well I slipped and told my friend that I liked this boy and she got extremely rude. Telling me that I was awful for trying to move on so quick. She thinks this guys body is to good for me and this and that. She’s like I’m gonna talk to him and tell him you like him. I asked her not to because this isn’t middle school/ elementary school. She’s just acting childish.

When I say I like this guy I mean I don’t want a relationship now it’s just the first time in two years that I’ve been able to like another guy and it’s different. I thought I could talk about how I feel but I forgot that’s not how things work.

Idk