Please tell me if I’m exaggerating..

- mother in law got divorced a while back and talks with 2-3 guys, mainly one but we’ve gone out to eat with one and he brought the other one to a family party, I don’t want that near my family, everyone is gonna think the worst of her.

- mother in law drinks and sometimes doesn’t know how to control it. family parties and she’s yelling and all over the place. I don’t want that near my kid.

- she lets her 15 year old son drive already and she started giving him drinks.

- my husband pissed me off cause he gave him a shot, he won’t be doing that with my kid.

I love my husband and mother in law but sometimes she’s too much. She helps a lot, we live with her but sometimes I just think, I don’t want that near my family and kids.

Help!