I need your guy’s opinion on this!!!

Ok so I love my boyfriend soooo much just lately he’s been pissing me off so I need your guy’s opinion on this. We’re 18 and kinda live together. So we got groceries at metro after I was done work. He

didn’t really wanna go in the first place so I ended up convincing him. When we got there he just kept trying to add things we don’t need and he wanted me to pay 15 for a thing of nuts. Got annoyed with me when I said you pay for it. And I’m not being rude he just knows I need to watch what I spend. I don’t make as much money as he does he makes a lot more he gets paid overtime all the time when I’m only getting 27 hrs/ week now and I have car insurance and gas to pay for so I have to watch what I spend. He just kept getting annoyed with me and I put him in a bad mood apparently when all I asked was do we really need that? Or are we gonna finish it before it expires. Reasonable questions so he got all annoyed and was like fine lets get what YOU Want. Anyway I ended up spending $65. I’m annoyed cause he just wouldn’t help. I had to put all the food on the checkout by myself while he went and sat on a bench by the exit. There were 4 heavy bags so I had to carry them to him. I asked him 3 times if he could help me carry them to the car and he said yes but took forever to do so. When we got home he said he’d help but was on his phone playing Pokémon go 🙄😒 i waited for like 2 min and still not doing anything but that so I had enough I got up and did it myself so by the time I waited for him I had it done by myself. Once we got inside he went straight onto his computer playing vid games while I have to put everything away by myself. (We live in the basement of his moms house so it’s like a little apartment type like we have a tiny kitchen and everything) on top of that the fridge was messed up. We have a mini fridge and I guess it didn’t close fully cause the seal is messed up and the ice built up so I asked him for help to empty it and bring everything upstairs he got annoyed at me cause his foot hurts this and that. So again I was tired of waiting for him and went upstairs 3 times when he only went once. I asked him to get a towel cause when we drain the fridge it’s gonna drip and go all over the floor so I told him to put one around and underneath it. Nope he didn’t do it went back to his games. His mom came down and got pissed cause there’s water all over the floor.

Another thing we go to a 24 hr breakfast place at like 3 am cause that’s when he’s done work with like 4 of his friends and EVERY time I go he says oh ya we’ll split it so I pay with my card and he never gives me his half. I enjoy going and hanging out with his friends I just don’t want to go if I’m always paying. I try talking about this with him but he’s just like the amount of times I pay for dinner this and that and don’t ask for money in return like ya my meals are like $20 at the most he gets the most expensive ones. I just feel like I’m constantly paying for this and that and he never offers to help pay or says Dw I got it this time. Like in front of his friends he’s like you got it. To me that’s a dick move like every time we go I’m stuck paying and it’s between $40-60 every time and I’m tired of it.

Basically I’m tired of having to do everything for him. Having to wait around for him all the time and basically him not being a gentleman about some things. Like it was snowing he wore his adidas slides in the snow ok? We went out for dinner. When we were done He asked me to pull the car to the door so he doesn’t get his feet wet again and I had to scrape ice and shit off of my car by myself. I don’t mind doing it but then he texted me saying hurry up then kept calling me and calling me.

I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot and Idk I just feel like if I stay in this relationship forever I’ll be miserable. He doesn’t want what I want. I want a family I want kids. He doesn’t want that he hates kids apparently. And I can’t change what I want I’ve always wanted a family so I’m so torn on what to do if I talk to him about all of this it’s not like he’s gonna magically stop and want kids like idk what to do.