Sooo we have a 5 month old right now. Our son is breastfed. And I’m a stay at home mom.

So my son makes it impossible to do things because if I’m holding him and he falls asleep and I lay him down 5 out of 10 he will wake up. But he can go to sleep on his own.

So I was talkin to my son about our routine during the week. While my daughter is in school and his dad is at work.

Now before you read on I have insomnia

7:20 I wake up my daughter to start getting her ready after that I nurse my son

8:15 I eat my breakfast

9 ish we take our morning nap

Around 12 we wake up and eat lunch

E play a little Until he gets tired

1ish back to sleep until it’s time to get my daughter off the bus.

My son has been waking up through the night here lately because his teething.

Today it was lunch time nap and told my son time for a nap. His dad said “all you do is sleep all day” then he says “if you wouldn’t sleep so much maybe you’d be more productive”.

EXCUSE ME while I do everything at the house while your sitting in your chair when you get home. No help with dishes, clothes, or picking up the house or our son. He doesn’t help with dinner either. The clothes are piled up because I can’t get them done, dishes get done in the morning because my BD goes to bed at 6:30-7 pm and I don’t want my son screaming to keep him up.

Him making this comment has annoyed me all day. But he can go mess with his big boy toys and help his family with stuff when he does work that day or the next when my dads truck that he has said he work on the transmission and hasn’t. It’s been sitting for like 4 months. He hasn’t even starting taking it apart to get the new own in.

So we had to pay our electricity bill and I call for every bill. So I call and talk to a representative we were unable to pay the amount that was due so we had to pay the past due and he gets pissed and said then we aren’t going to grandmas for thanksgiving dinner, mind you we stay at a cheap but great hotel near his grandmas I feel better staying at a hotel since having the baby then staying at his grandmas since my son has been waking up through the night. There’s only on bedroom down stairs and the attic (which isn’t divided) has two beds. And his dad sleeps upstairs too. Welllll how in the world am I supposed to know how much you can use for a bill if your don’t tell me what you can’t go over in order to go do something.

I think I dee better now that I have said what was bothering me